The Almost Daily Word of Wisdom – Why I Blog

“Your blog is an unedited version of yourself.” – Unattributed
I am someone who is relatively private and intensely self-conscious. It therefore surprises me that for the past six years, since I started tutoring, I have been eager to share my thoughts and feelings publicly about a wide range of topics – many unconventional and/or personal – about preparing for the Bar Exam. That dichotomy seems to be worth reflecting on every so often. It’s become important to me that people interested in me in my tutor hat know something about what makes me tick.
There are many reasons beyond the obvious, why the Bar Exam is important. It requires an immense amount of work. Preparing for it and taking it are gut wrenching. (I remember nearly everything about the three days that I took it, over 40 years later.) Passing it can feel like summiting Everest, flunking it can be about as bad a feeling as there is. There are no guaranties of passing, and that alone – that uncertain outcome – pumps the stress level up into redline territory. Most folks undertake this struggle in a well-intentioned spotlight cast on them by their friends and family, by law professors and future employers –not always easy. If only one could hide out until his or her name is on the pass list.
So, for starters, I feel a tremendous amount of respect for, and kinship with, everyone who sits for the Exam. It isn’t an overstatement to say that they are heroes to me in a way; embarking upon uncharted waters with a critical destination in mind and no guaranties. After over 35 years affiliated with the Bar Exam – as a grader, as a Committee of Bar Examiners member and as the State Bar Exam Director, as a tutor and as a law professor – I feel a responsibility to be involved in the conversation about how to prepare for it.
Another thing that has surprised me is that I have opinions about the Exam and how to get ready for it: lots of strongly held ones that involve not only how to study but how to BE while one studies. Those opinions may not be for everyone. That’s fine. But they are sincere, and they come from a long life of doing many different things in addition to being a State Bar bureaucrat. Much of what I most believe in comes from my mistakes and failures in life. Aeschylus, the Greek poet said: “Pain falls drop by drop upon the heart until one acquires wisdom through the awful grace of God.” I have become wise, I hope, and I’m eager to volunteer that wisdom to anyone who wants to listen. My failures have also given me a sympathy for others who are struggling in a noble cause –  a sympathy that I never had when I was a younger person and thought I knew everything.
I am eager to work “up-close and personal,” as they say, with my students. I want to help them feel safe and confident so that they can face up to and discuss their weaknesses and their fears; so they can grow; and so they can walk with genuine confidence into their exams, proud that they’ve done everything they could to prepare, and ready to conquer the challenge. To be perfectly honest, I’m doing it as much for me as for them. It fulfills me. Seeing them grow in their studies feeds me. Seeing them succeed makes me more than a little insane with happiness.
So why do I blog? I guess one way to think of it is that when I blog I’m extending my hand to you. I want you to know that I’m here and to encourage you to consider my thoughts and feelings about your success. To remind you that passing the Bar is a huge challenge, but not an insurmountable one, and that you are capable of doing it. I want you to know that being invited to help you and support you would be a privilege, and a pleasure.

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